Certain people inspire us the way they live their life ….the vital radiating energy they spread across the known and unknown people around them makes them even more special to be remembered….their circle of influence is far beyond boundaries of their physical presence……
In a way I am extremely happy to write about Dr.Rajan Santhosam a Cardiothoracic Surgeon from Chennai…..I saw him first in a hospital at about 6am in the morning with his snow white apron walking in 100 mile per hour speed on the corridors on his way to his regular rounds to attend his patients in the wards…the gray haired, short ,thunder speed person of about my grandfather’s age rushing past me like a lightning …I could not take my eye away from him….my heart just got attached with him….my mind was curious to know about him….
Dr.Rajan’s day starts by 6am with the ward rounds and any one can follow through his day till 12 am (mid night ) until he reaches his home…a power packed activity filled day his days….ward rounds to operation theaters …consultations …conferences and meeting ….he is one Doctor available round the clock for his patients ,friends and colleagues and his family…..the beauty of him is not the amount of work he performs or the number of people he meets in a day…the beauty is no one can never see him over occupied with his work….he will be at ease and natural even amides his sandwiched schedule…… his smile will overflow and run through the places he walks through….
Dr.Rajan is an example for such an attitude positive attitude….
His attitude towards his job… his patients…his attitude towards every other person he meets and talks…over and above his attitude about life…makes him more special in my life…..there is no narrowness, no crawl mind or selfishness….Only a clear conscious mind with right attitude can make a person to behave or to respond to life the way Dr.Rajan behaves and responds…..
In the case of Dr.Rajan or people like him, what makes them lovable, approachable and admirable is their genuine attitude….a transparent agenda about life and people around…
In relationships our attitude about the other person determines the depth of the relationship in result…..
Among the colleagues the attitude of one towards other determines their respect to each other and the relationship thereon….
In trades the attitude of the merchant towards his customer determines the attitude of the customers towards the merchant….the customer relationship is build on the intangible lines of attitudes.
The inner hidden attitude of a person translates in terms of his intentions and will reflect in the body language and sometime through their verbal and non verbal communications ….how best we pretend to be fine with the person or situation….only the hidden attitude determines the outcome of a relationship or a situation…..all looking good…or all talking good will not make good outcomes …it is the hidden inner attitude makes a good outcome….
It is profitable to set our attitude right in the first place than to find thousand ways to pretend to be right…. Right attitude will come up like oil in deep waters.....
Arther.C
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